by Aziza Uko
ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT God's Word is the standard by which you live your life. He forbids you to have premarital sex of any kind. Till you are married by the payment of bride price in Africa or whatever ceremony that is the final stage of marriage, in the West - civil or church marriage - no sex is permitted.
Introduction is not marriage and people can go their separate ways thereafter. Marriage proposal is not marriage. Ladies, don't succumb to pressure to defile yourselves. If he is serious, let him marry you. Till you have a marriage ring on your finger, tell him to hold on. Pleasing Jehovah is more important than anything in this world.
Make sure that you are married, recognize by your two families before you have sex. Secure your glorious destiny by fleeing fornication and keeping God's temple holy.
God has never failed anybody who obeys Him. You can never go wrong obeying God's Word. He is a sure anchor, a solid rock on which you can build your life and your future. Don't follow human wisdom which is foolishness. Follow your Creator, trust Him, He cannot fail you or lead you astray. Believe Him when He says that He loves you and will not lead you astray or into misery.
Any command God gives you is not for Him to remain God, but for you to live your life in fullness. He says that His thoughts towards us are good and not of evil to give us an expected end. Trust God that everything will be well, if you do as He commands, it will be well with you in every area of your life including your marital sex life.
He is a loving Father and He created sex and for your pleasure. He knows what is best for you. He is committed to meeting your heart’s desires. Trust Him and you'll be fine.
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